We’re saying goodbye to Christina this morning.

Three days before Christmas.

Three days before her three-year-old son will wake up with that uncontrollable, breathless excitement only toddlers know, tearing into wrapping paper, shouting about toys, believing without question that magic is real.

Christina won’t be there to see Constantine jump for joy.

And that truth still feels impossible to hold.

I keep trying to understand it, and I can’t.

I feel too many emotions all at once—sadness so deep it feels physical, anger that flares without warning, confusion that circles back on itself no matter how many times I replay the facts. Six days ago, Christina returned to her Hoover home after an early morning jog, her body warm from movement, her lungs full of cold air, her mind likely already moving through the quiet checklist of the day ahead.

Minutes later, her life was gone.

She was the victim of a murder-suicide.

Those words sit heavy and wrong. They don’t fit the woman I knew. They don’t fit the life she lived. They don’t explain how something so senseless could erase someone so full of light.

I keep thinking about how unfair it all is.

How cruel.

How unnecessary.

Christina Chambers packed more life into thirty-eight years than most people manage in a lifetime.

She was the kind of person who didn’t just exist—she lived, intentionally and wholeheartedly. She loved running, not just as exercise, but as a celebration of what her body could do. She loved competition, the discipline, the challenge, the quiet pride that comes from pushing past limits. Running wasn’t just a hobby; it was part of who she was—early mornings, steady breaths, miles that cleared her mind and strengthened her spirit.

She loved her parents deeply, with a gratitude that never felt obligatory. She loved her four siblings in that layered way only siblings can—equal parts loyalty, laughter, shared history, and unconditional support. Family wasn’t something she talked about; it was something she showed up for, again and again.

And above all, she loved her son.

Constantine was her heart walking around outside her body. Every choice she made, every plan she formed, every prayer she whispered carried his name inside it. She spoke of him with joy and humility, as if motherhood wasn’t something she owned but something she had been entrusted with.

She loved baking pecan pies and Christmas sugar cookies with her mother, flour on the counters, laughter in the kitchen, traditions passed down through hands that had done this many times before. She loved the quiet joy of simple moments—the kind that don’t make headlines but build a life.

She loved life.

And she loved her Lord.

Christina Chambers lived a godly life in a way that never demanded attention. She never asked people to pray for her. Instead, she asked who she could pray for. In a world where so many seek affirmation, she sought service. Where others looked inward, she looked outward. Her faith wasn’t loud, but it was steady, sincere, and deeply lived.

I keep thinking about that.

About how rare it is.

About how easy it is to say we want to live like that—and how hard it is to actually do it.

Through the years, I’ve wondered if we should do more to Be Like Christina.

Not in grand gestures or public declarations, but in the quiet, daily choices that define who we are when no one is watching.

Don’t judge, but rather love.

Not the easy kind of love—the kind that feels natural—but the kind that takes patience, humility, and restraint. The kind that listens before speaking. The kind that leaves room for grace.

Be not spiteful, but kind.

Even when kindness costs something. Even when bitterness would feel justified. Christina had a way of choosing kindness without making it look performative. She didn’t weaponize goodness. She simply lived it.

Find a way to make others find the light.

She did that effortlessly. Not by preaching, but by example. By being someone whose presence felt safe, whose words felt thoughtful, whose actions reflected genuine care. People felt seen around her. Valued. Encouraged.

Yesterday, I visited Christina’s family during the visitation.

There is no adequate word for what I saw.

They are broken.

Not just grieving, but shattered by the kind of loss that doesn’t follow logic or fairness. The kind that leaves you asking questions no one can answer. A daughter. A sister. A mother. Taken in a way that defies understanding.

And yet—even in their brokenness—there was something else present.

Love.

Stories shared softly. Tears mixed with memories. A collective effort to hold one another upright when standing felt impossible. Grief was everywhere, but so was the unmistakable imprint of the woman they loved.

Christina’s life had shaped them.

And now, her absence does too.

I believe—truly believe—that if we all strive to Be Like Christina, we will comfort this family in ways words alone never can. We will honor her not just by remembering her, but by living differently because of her.

If we choose compassion over criticism.

If we choose kindness over cruelty.

If we choose to pray for others before asking for ourselves.

Then something good can still grow from this tragedy.

I think of Constantine.

Three years old.

Too young to understand why his mother won’t be there on Christmas morning. Too young to grasp the permanence of loss. Too young to know how deeply he was loved, how fiercely she dreamed for his future.

But one day, he will know.

He will hear stories.

He will see photos.

He will learn about a mother who ran hard, loved deeply, baked joy into holidays, and lived her faith with quiet strength. He will learn that her life mattered—that it still matters.

And maybe, in time, he will carry her light forward in ways none of us can yet imagine.

As we say goodbye to Christina today, I pray that the young woman with the word “Christ” in her name is resting at the side of Jesus. I pray that she knows how profoundly she was loved here, and how enduring her impact will be.

And as we move into the New Year—tender, shaken, uncertain—I pray that we remember her not only with sorrow, but with intention.

May we speak more gently.

May we judge less and love more.

May we look for ways to serve instead of be served.

May we ask, as Christina always did, Who can I pray for?

And may we all strive, every day, in s